Message Board  Kids? Jack and Bec 5/22/08 - 2:15 PM When do you guys think that its best to start having kids? Sarah Joan MODERATOR 7/07/08 - 9:20 PM right now. Seriously. I want a baby so bad. baby fever=not good. But, God knows the best timing, and that's what we're waiting on. Prayer helps in everything of course. And, I'd like to add that I don't think there is a "best" time to have kids. God will provide whenever it happens. For some couples, a baby is conceived when they aren't trying, for others, they choose to have babies shortly after marrying, and others like to wait a few years after marriage. That said, it's really in God's timing. I'm having a hard time with that right now because like I said, my baby fever is BAD right now, and being a mom and teaching my kids about Christ is my main dream in life (along with being a Godly woman and wife). Still, it's hard to wait. We'll be married 4 years this year, and I'll be 25 also. So, I guess as they say (whoever they are) my "clock" is ticking. --- God bless, ~Sarah Amanda 9/30/08 - 9:04 PM Sarah, People will tell you this over and over.It is some thing you must do.I regret not doing it sooner.If you try to have a baby or do noting to prevent it for a year and have no baby GO SEE A DOC! I thought it was just God's timing.Next month I am having surgery to have my tubes removed.I have a block that years ago could have been fixed.Now nothing can be done.Please dont wait.It could be some thing that needs to be looked into.God gave us healing hands (doctors). Now for ME and hubby! I have a wonderful 11 year old healthy boy in public school.Since I had him young all my friends are now having babies at the "normal" age.We tryed to have a baby for 3 years with out any medical help.Next month I will have my tubes removed and start looking at IVF treatments.